A Heartwarming Tale of Self-Discovery: An Expanded Look at “Love, Simon”
After the credits rolled on “Love, Simon,” the immediate impression was just how genuinely charming Simon Spier is as a character. More than that, though, the film itself is such a heartwarming and feel-good experience.
Simon, at first glance, seems to have it all: affectionate and supportive parents, an adorable and relatable sister, and a tight-knit circle of friends who are always there for each other. He attends a school that is comparatively inclusive, navigating a life that presents itself as perfectly ordinary. But beneath the surface, he carries a secret, a weight that makes him feel like a “secret boy” even amidst the seeming normalcy of his suburban existence.
The Spark of Connection
The arrival of “Blue,” an anonymous fellow student, ignites something within Simon. Fueled by a combination of trepidation and eager hope, he takes his first tentative steps out of the confines of his hidden world. He confides in Blue through the anonymity of the internet, using the pseudonym Jacques to shield his true identity. Through their email exchanges, they share fragments of their lives, of their dreams and fears, and Simon finds himself falling for the boy who understands his secret.
The Revelation and Its Repercussions
The inevitable exposure of Simon’s secret sends ripples through his meticulously constructed world. When their private correspondence becomes public knowledge, Blue retreats, seeking refuge from the sudden glare of attention. In that moment, the viewer can’t help but feel a surge of empathy for Simon’s vulnerability and pain. Yet, there’s also a recognition of the privilege and fortune he possesses – the unwavering support and love of his seemingly “normal” family. The affection from his handsome, understanding dad, his stylish and accomplished mom, and his food-obsessed sister ultimately empowers him to embrace his authentic self, rather than resorting to deception and manipulation to remain hidden in the shadows.
Moments of Profound Resonance
What truly resonates are the portrayal of genuine understanding and acceptance. Simon’s loving family who provides a bedrock; his friends who are willing to listen, learn, and forgive his missteps; the understanding and supportive vice-principal and teachers who create a safe space; and even classmates who are capable of confronting their own prejudices and biases create an environment of growth.
The depth of emotion in “Love, Simon” is palpable.
A Mother’s Wisdom and a Father’s Pride
The most profoundly moving scene is is the heartfelt conversation between Simon and his mother. It encapsulates unconditional love when she reassured him: “You’re still you, Simon. You’re still the son I love to tease, the son your dad has high hopes for, the brother who always compliments your sister’s cooking. But you need to breathe, Simon. You deserve to be yourself after suppressing it for so long. You deserve everything you want.” His father’s journey from initial awkwardness upon learning of Simon’s sexuality to a firm and loving declaration: “I just want you to know, I love you, and I’m so proud of you. I don’t want you to change at all.” These words provide a crucial reminder of the lasting impact of paternal acceptance…
The Culmination of Courage
The film reaches its zenith on the Ferris wheel, the very place where Simon and Blue’s secret connection was first forged. Blue finally reveals himself, and at the highest point of the ride, they share a tender and meaningful kiss. The warmth extends beyond just Simon and Blue, culminating in a heartwarming moment when the usual four coffees become five.
Embracing Transformation
Simon’s journey serves as a testament to the courage it takes to embrace one’s true self.
“The self that we see isn’t always the self that we want to be.”
“To move from where you are now to where you want to be, requires a shift in behavior and attitude, hard work, courage and determination.”
The film celebrates the beauty of self-discovery, the importance of acceptance, and the transformative power of love.