You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
Plot
As the day of their joint bat mitzvah celebration approaches, best friends Stacy and Lydia can barely contain their excitement. The two young Jewish girls have always shared a deep bond, and they're determined to make their coming-of-age party one for the books. However, things take an unexpected turn when popular boy Jake starts showing interest in Lydia, causing tension between the former BFFs. As Stacy and Lydia try to navigate their newfound rivalry, they must also contend with the chaos that ensues from the numerous mishaps surrounding the bat mitzvah preparations. Between a botched photo shoot, a stolen bat mitzvah dress, and a series of embarrassing incidents involving Jake's over-the-top attempts to impress Lydia, it seems like nothing can go right. Despite the setbacks, Stacy and Lydia must find a way to put their differences aside and come together to save the day - literally. With the help of some quirky supporting characters, including a flamboyant event planner and a wise-cracking DJ, the two friends embark on a series of misadventures that ultimately lead them to a heartwarming realization about the true meaning of friendship and loyalty. As the bat mitzvah party descends into utter pandemonium, Stacy and Lydia must confront their own insecurities and learn to appreciate each other's unique qualities. With its lighthearted humor, relatable characters, and upbeat soundtrack, "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" is a hilarious and heartwarming comedy that celebrates the power of female friendship and the joy of growing up.
Reviews
Esther
30 minutes in: Here we go again, Adam Sandler cashing in another Netflix paycheck. End credits: Okay, I get it now. It's a story about the strength of fatherly love.
Lilly
Measured against the average standards of teen movies, it's quite mediocre, failing to deliver either a distinctive aesthetic or a particularly original script. Essentially, it's a "old-guard supports new talent" model, just with the Sandler family taking center stage. Once you acknowledge this and its direct-to-streaming feel, the viewing experience isn't too bad. Idina Menzel and Jackie's respective mother characters shine particularly bright, despite their limited screen time. The Jewish cultural background and the theme of praying to God from afar aren't groundbreaking, especially following the more nuanced exploration in "Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret".
Austin
Adapted from a novel, this is quite a coming-of-age high school drama. Media reviews are surprisingly positive. I was shocked to see four Sandlers listed in the end credits, and a quick search confirmed it's a family affair! The bat mitzvah party was an eye-opener – Jewish people are really wealthy. Also, is Netflix going to use an extended logo for all their original movie projects from now on?
Rachel
Hahaha, the initial score is so low, but it deserves it. But congrats to Sarah Sherman for entering the mainstream film industry! (But this terrible movie made me cry)
August
The Sandler family reunion on Netflix, with both daughters, wife, and Adam Sandler all in tow... A Jewish colleague's bat mitzvah is basically the most extravagant event in their adolescence. On average, these kids live in houses worth upwards of $2 million, and their parents are either doctors or lawyers. As someone who grew up with a focus on well-rounded education, I really can't relate... With all this money, what's with the month-long hiatus in post-production? I wonder, after the strike, if these kinds of Netflix movies will keep popping up... Also, the Torah just sounds looped backwards.
